It's so hard not to get jealous when my boyfriend is aroused by another woman. I hate it when he watches girls with big butts on social media and I don't like watching porn with him either. Even mentioning his past girlfriends upsets me. Is this normal? I know I get turned on by other men and watch porn all the time, but I conscientiously didn't express that to him because I thought it might make him jealous. Now I don't feel like holding back from saying when I think a dude is hot because I want him to feel jealous, but he says he doesn't care, and wishes I wasn't so jealous either. I trust him, I don't think he'll cheat on me, but knowing that he's aroused by someone other than me drives me nuts.